To get guaranteed responds to your dating emails, it requires skills that you must perfect. It’s not that difficult but you have to tap in to your creative side, a bit like for your profile picture. When you write your first email to someone, you are 3/4 of the way to getting laid.
- A funny message
- A joyful message
- An original message
- A personalized message
- A transparent message
- A message that stimulates her to respond
- Not a long, or too short of a message
- A message that looks like it is written wisely and not from a coward
Your written email must contain all of these traits. It might seem like too much work, but it’s really not if you think of what you can achieve. With practice, this process will come naturally once you get used to saying the right things and triggering the right thoughts. Learn how to really seal the deal with a bit of information about the different positive traits in texts:
- Get her to laugh: Use humor that is not offensive and no pick-up lines.
- Get her to smile: Respectively give her compliments that don’t mention her body parts. Talking about her tits and ass is a definite no-no.
- Be original: Find different ways to say what you want to say. DO NOT copy something you found online!
- Keep It personal: Write something specific you found in her profile like an interest or hobby.
- Don’t be perverted: You and she both know you are in contact for sex so avoid trying to convince her with details about what you would do with or to her.
- Do not send a transparent message: Generic messages are the worst. Anyone can read a message and know that you sent it to 500 other people. Try to change your messages according to the women and try to be original in what you are saying. Put some effort into it!
- Give her a reason to reply: Ask a question or write a comment she can reply to. Ask an open-ended question. DO NOT leave her a yes or no question.
- Write a message with proper length: A message that is too short is not enough information but a message that is too long will make her think you are boring. Be concise and keep it simple.
- Write an intelligent message: Most Women do not want to sleep with a coward so choose your words wisely and sound confident. Reread your message to correct your grammar so she doesn’t think you are a complete retard.
Types Of First Emails You DO NOT Use
Before presenting you example of emails that do work, we’ll show what to avoid saying so pay close attention. These next 3 examples lack many of the traits mentioned above. See how many flaws you can find!
Unsuccessful Email #1
“Hey there sexy! I can’t help but notice your gorgeous body and your pretty face! If you`re not busy this weekend, let’s meet up?“
Reasons Why This Message Is Unsuccessful
First off, the message is too short and doesn’t trigger or stimulate the reader. There is no humor. The writer is focused on complimenting her physique. This email also lacks personalization. Nothing is being said to show that this is an email specific for her and that is not sent to all the other girls! This means that she shouldn`t feel special.
Unsuccessful Email #2
“While I was going through your profile, all I can think about is your nice ass bent over in front of me. Girl, you are sexy, I would fuck you so hard! Just the thought of your ass gets my dick nice and hard! If you like a huge hard cock, I`m your man! I never finish before my woman cums. You can call me a total pleaser! If you want to find what I’m all about and get your tight pussy pounded, give me a shout!”
Reasons Why This Message Is Unsuccessful
This is the sort of email that is perverted. It is true that the woman wants sex but sending an overly detailed sexual message like this only scares her off. When woman read your first email, they don’t know you so try to demonstrate some class and leave the details to when things actually heat up.
Unsuccessful Email #3
“Hey there! I’m 29 years old living out of Toronto and I want a ‘friend with benefits’ relationship. I’m not like the other guys. I’d focus on getting to know you first and then work on the benefits part. That way we can both have fun with sex. We should chat sometime! Let me know.”
Reasons Why This Message Is Unsuccessful
Compared to the last unsuccessful email, this email is classy. BUT this email lacks originality and excitement. No compliments were given, no humor was expressed, and definitely nothing to personalize the message to the receiver. This could be the 50th email this guy has sent! Also, we can barely see this dude`s personality through his message, other than the fact that he’s boring as fuck! Basically, with this sort of message, you`re either not getting an answer or you`re getting some from desperate unattractive women. It’s your pick, make the right choice!