There is no doubt a great chance to have sex on the first date if there is instant chemistry. Most women that use dating websites for flings will at least blow you after a good date. Women that say they don’t have sex on the first date manage to get away fairly at the end of an unsmooth night saying «I told you so».
- Be in close proximity of your house
- Be in a less crowded setting to allow intimacy
- Be in an fun place to visit
- Avoid a dinner setting
The dinner setting is to please a potential girlfriend but not a potential casual partner. Because of the calm setting, dinner is appropriate if you are trying to get to know the girl. When the objective is to get laid, you want to be in an upbeat place. All your thinking is how attractive she is, if she’s clean and to make sure she’s not psycho! Those long conversations, the ones about her past boyfriends and her life dreams, are not important.
Dinner takes plenty of time and demands lots of effort to keep the conversation rolling smoothly. This is where mistakes can happen and where the girl loses interest in you. For us fellow Canadian men, the best thing is to take her to a quiet lounge AFTER dinner, then to a closeby bar with cool ambiance with comfortable seating and dim lights. Something to get you in the mood! Whatever you have access to, make the best out of it.
Don’t Be A Drag: Drink, Chat, And Get Her Back To Your Place ASAP
I repeat, it is a waste of time to talk about future goals and objectives, current interests and passions. Get in CLOSE to her after paying her a drink, making her laugh, and charming her with your personality. You should expect to have her back at your place within the hour if you stay close to home. What this means is that you should aim for less time for talking, and more time for getting intimate. For example, 5 minutes spent on introducing each other, half an hour to have a few drinks and flirt with her, and then you’re on your way back home.
If you don’t manage to get her out of the bar within the hour you have to step up your game. If she’s really in to you, it shouldn’t take you much to hint to her that you would like to take her home. Even a simple question like: «what do you say we keep drinking at my place? » works every time. Remember, women want what they desire very fast so there`s no point in beating around the bush. Be frank and tell her you want her to come back home with you.